Many Women Struggle to Orgasm During Sex

The Pleasure Gap

It’s no secret that many women struggle to reach orgasm during sex — and it’s a pattern that’s been well documented and frustratingly persistent. What’s often referred to as the “pleasure gap” remains a striking disparity, particularly in heterosexual encounters. A 2019 study highlighted just how wide that gap is: while 82 percent of men reported orgasming during their most recent casual sexual experience, only 32 percent of women said the same. Fast forward six years, and little has changed. In a large-scale study published in June 2023 involving over 24,000 American adults, researchers found that men still reported orgasming between 22 to 30 percent more frequently than women.

Women Struggle to Orgasm During Sex

For women who rarely or never orgasm during sex, these numbers don’t just feel discouraging — they reflect a deeper, systemic issue. The normalization of women not reaching climax has become so ingrained in our culture that it’s often brushed off as just “how things are.” But it shouldn’t be.

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Mainstream Pornography and Its Impact on Our Understanding of Sex

In today’s hyper-connected world, pornography is more accessible than ever before, shaping the sexual expectations and experiences of millions of people—often from an early age. But while porn may serve as a source of sexual curiosity and entertainment, it also comes with powerful messages about what sex “should” look like. Unfortunately, many of these messages are misleading, unrealistic, and steeped in a male-centered perspective.

Mainstream Pornography and Its Impact on Our Understanding of Sex

Mainstream pornography overwhelmingly portrays sex as a performance, one that revolves around male pleasure. The typical script is easy to recognize: foreplay is brief or skipped entirely, the action is vigorous and penetrative, and the scene ends—predictably—with the male orgasm. This formula is so common that it becomes a kind of unspoken rule: sex is over when the man climaxes.

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Full Body Massage

Finally, a Whole-Body Massage that gets to those places you wish they would work on at the Local Spa.

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What’s the difference between whole body, full body and Tantric massage?

Whole body, full body, and Tantric massage are terms often used interchangeably, but they refer to different styles and intentions in the world of therapeutic and sensual bodywork. Understanding the distinctions between them can help individuals choose the most appropriate type of massage for their needs.

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Benefits of Inspired Touch Massage

Benefits of Massage by James

Stress & Relaxation

The Inspired Touch massage is naturally very relaxing. Each part of the session will take you deeper into a state of relaxation, making it one of the best therapies for managing stress.

A sensual massage can be exciting, yet you’ll feel utterly comfortable throughout the session. The sense of security allows your body and mind to fully relax and quickly regenerate energy. Consequently, you’ll feel your stress and the underlying issues simply slip away.

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Best Orgasm of My Life – Inspired Touch Yoni Massage

Yoni Massage and the Best Orgasm of My Life

“I got an erotic yoni massage and had the best orgasm of my life.”

I have a weird relationship to tantra. I find the spiritual or new age-y side of it a bit off-putting. But people promoting tantric principles or lifestyles take sex and sexual pleasure very seriously, and because of that I can’t resist looking into it.

Masturbating while visualizing balls of energy? No thanks. Open and sexually liberated people bringing focused attention to sex? Yes, please!

Recently, my research led me to yoni massages — massages focused on the vulva and vagina.

Yoni massage best orgasm of my life.
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Happy Ending Massage for Women

Is there a Happy Ending Massage for Women?

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A “happy ending” massage usually refers to a massage that ends with sexual pleasure or orgasm. While it’s most commonly talked about in relation to men, some women are also curious about or seek out sensual massages that include this kind of experience. For women, though, it’s often a more subtle or emotionally connected journey, and less openly discussed due to cultural taboos and social expectations.

In this context, some women explore sensual or erotic massage not just for physical pleasure, but to connect more deeply with their own bodies, release stress, or experience intimacy in a safe, intentional way. These types of massages might involve gentle, full-body touch and focus on energy, relaxation, and arousal — and they can include genital touch if that’s something the woman desires and consents to. This is more common in practices like Tantric massage, sensual bodywork, or sessions with trained professionals who specialize in touch and intimacy.

That said, most traditional spas and massage therapists don’t offer this kind of service. If someone is looking for a sensual experience, it’s important to find a practitioner who is open, respectful, experienced in this kind of work, and clear about boundaries and consent. The goal in these settings isn’t just a “happy ending” — it’s a deeper connection to pleasure, self-awareness, and trust in your own body.

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An Introduction to Tantric Massage

If you’re new to Tantric massage, you might have heard whispers of it being “spiritual,” “sensual,” or even “healing.” And the truth is — it can be all of those things. At its heart, Tantric massage is a body-based practice rooted in Tantra, a spiritual tradition that sees the body, breath, and energy as gateways to deep connection and self-awareness.

Rather than just a relaxing massage, Tantric massage is about being present, awakening energy, and treating touch as something sacred.

Let’s explore some of the main types you might come across.

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The Difference Tantra & Tantric by Inspired Touch

The Difference Tantra & Tantric


Alright, imagine you’re stepping into a mystical, colorful festival filled with ancient secrets, sacred dances, and whispers of magic in the air. You hear two mysterious words floating around: Tantra and Tantric. What do they mean? Let’s dive in with a fun twist!

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Meet Tantra – The Ancient Cosmic Party Manual

Tantra is like the whole festival – a big, sacred blueprint for how to live life with deeper meaning, spiritual awakening, and a little bit of magic.
It comes from ancient India and is all about connecting the body, mind, and spirit – using rituals, meditations, breathwork, even sound and movement – to awaken energy inside you.

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How Many Types of Orgasms Are There?

So many articles on the internet and so many claiming 10 or even 20 kinds of Orgasms.

Crazy absurd information about the sacred O. Don’t women know the best? Why are so many men supposedly the experts on this subject?

Article: 13 Types of Orgasm

13 types of orgasms that women can have! Join Dr. Becky Spelman, renowned psychologist, as she delves into the complex world of female pleasure in this enlightening and educational video. With a respectful and scientific approach, Dr. Spelman unravels the mysteries behind the 13 distinct types of female orgasms. From the well-known clitoral and vaginal orgasms to the less talked about cervical and A-spot sensations, this video is a comprehensive guide that aims to empower women and educate viewers of all genders.

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Article: About the 10 Types of Orgasms.

What Is an Orgasm? 10 Types of Female Orgasms

While it’s common knowledge that orgasms are a part of sex, you may wonder what an orgasm really is. Simply put, an orgasm is the pleasurable feeling of climax that often happens during sexual activity. It is a physical response to genital stimulation and erotic or romantic thoughts.

Everyone’s bodies, preferences, and physical responses during sex are unique. However, generally, orgasms are a desired part of a healthy sex life.

People with a vulva may experience multiple types of orgasms that feel different in terms of intensity and duration.

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Article: About 24 Types of Orgasms

Maybe you’ve experienced an orgasm that felt different in some way from your other ones. But are there really different types of orgasms that people can experience with the right techniques or know-how? We spoke with doctors, sex therapists, and other experts about the typology of orgasms and how to explore different kinds of orgasmic experience.

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Tantric Transformation Journey

Among the many benefits of practicing tantric sex, tantric healing may be the most powerful—specifically when it comes to healing from sexual trauma.

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What is tantric healing?

Tantric healing, most often performed through tantric massage, is a form of hands-on bodywork that has been developed by modern Tantrics in the last few decades. Unlike other forms of massage, this sacred practice incorporates the tantric essence of shakti, or energy. When skillfully incorporating this universal force into a massage, it can touch the deepest layers and aspects of a human being and be a profound instrument of spiritual and emotional healing. Most notably, tantric healing is believed to remove energetic blockages related to sexual trauma. Some health experts believe trauma can be stored in the body, and physical therapeutic modalities—like tantric massage—can help heal those emotional wounds by “releasing” that trauma.

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The Inspired Touch Tantric Massage

The Principal Behind Tantric Massage

The basic principle behind Tantric massage is one of surrender.

Both the giver and the recipient surrender into the process. It helps in relieving blockages of different kinds be it mental, physical, emotional or spiritual.

Within us we are habituated in carrying so many traumas and preconceived notions around our genitals and our sexuality, that it often brings us negativity. So, the main purpose of tantra massage is to heal that trauma around our sexuality and make harmony within the whole body so that we can live life in its full potential of sex and super consciousness together.

The goal of Tantric massage is to enter into a separate state of consciousness where both the participants feel more energized and blissful.

Searching: Sensual Massage near me? The universe has led you to James!

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Experience Full Body Orgasmic Bliss


Experience Orgasmic Bliss Full Body

Almost every woman can have an orgasm. All you need is the right technique and the ability to remove the mental obstacles that get in your way and prevent you from climaxing. Even if you can orgasm you may be able to enhance your climaxing by finding new ways to come. Ways you may not know even exist; including, but not limited to, multiple, squirt and back wall.

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Anorgasmia in Women

Pre-Orgasmia in Women


Anorgasmia is delayed, infrequent or absent orgasms — or significantly less-intense orgasms — after sexual arousal and adequate sexual stimulation. Women who have problems with orgasms and who feel significant distress about those problems may be diagnosed with anorgasmia.

I’d rather call it Pre-Orgasmia as I believe all women can orgasm in time, so it is really the state before the first orgasm. Basically, to awaken the orgasm.

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Health Benefits of Bidet

“James’ installed Bidet is wonderful!”

Another great reason to have your session at James’ location is the Bidet. You will welcome this total cleaning experience before and after your session. With heated water and a heated seat the experience is just refreshing and super healthy.

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An essential item in many Asian and European restrooms, bidets and bidet seats are plumbing fixtures or toilet enhancements that allow you to wash your genitals, anus and inner buttocks with a stream of warm water after toileting. Their use allows people to drastically cut the amount of toilet paper used — or forgo its use altogether.

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What’s is the Difference Between Yoni, Lingam, and Tantric Massage?


Allow me to take you on a sensual journey and illuminate the differences between yoni massage, lingam massage, and tantric massage.

Let’s start with yoni massage, shall we? Yoni is a Sanskrit word that means “sacred space” and is commonly used to refer to the female genitalia. Yoni massage is an intimate massage technique that focuses on the vulva and vagina. The primary goal of yoni massage is to help the receiver connect with their feminine energy, release tension, experience sexual healing and expand their orgasmic potential.

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History of the Yoni Massage

What is Yoni Massage?

Yoni massage is a sexual tantra practice that involves massaging the vagina, which is called yoni in Sanskrit and loosely translates to “a sacred space.”

Yoni massage allows you time to slowly explore your body in a more sensual way. It can help people who usually feel finished after one orgasm to achieve multiple orgasms, and it’s especially beneficial for people with vaginas who have never had an orgasm.

It can also be very healing for those who have suffered sexual trauma in their past because the approach and technique is all about giving—making the vagina owner feel loved, cherished, worshipped, and honored.

Hysteria in Women

In the 1800s when women were considered “frustrated” they visited a specialist doctor to have their “hysteria” treated by a professional. Basically, the doctor performed masturbation by way of vagina and yoni massage.

Doctors would treat female “hysterics” by massaging them until they reached orgasm. The notion that women suffered from hysteria, a poorly defined disorder with a laundry list of symptoms, led to the creation of the modern-day vibrator.

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