FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do we need to do a verification call?

This is the internet and I have had my share of men pretending to be women or calling under the guise of getting their wife or girlfriend a surprise gift of a tantric session. Usually these involves the man being present and watching the activities. Not much of a surprise really and not much of a gift either, since I don’t charge for the sessions. This verification call allows us to hear each other’s voice. The verification can be a voicemail – so if by chance I cannot answer the phone feel free to leave me an audio message.

What if I am too far away?

The Inspired Touch location may seem to be too far to travel depending on where you live or work. If you have a quiet relaxed place at your location, I may be able to travel to you as an Out-call session. I travel with a portable table. If not, then my quiet relaxed place on the water in Jupiter, FL would be best. I will do my best to make it worth the trip. See this article for more information about travel to Inspired Touch.

Why do you request photos?

I do a handful of sessions per week and I give first priority to those who submit photos. Photos do not need to show your face. Clothing is optional. Basically, I am just looking to see what type of body you have. I do not care about size, shape, weight, color, age, or who you voted for. I just like to know in advance. You can submit photos here.

How can I find out more about the provider, James?

James is an older man, a gentleman, and has had vast experience with many different women. Blonde hair, blue eyes, trim, tan and often sports a light soft beard. His hands are very soft and have been described by many visitors as “magic” and “intuitive.”

Read more: What visitors have said about James. Also read Why women have multiple sessions with James.

Why don’t I just ask for this type of massage at my local spa?

Your local massage spa will not provide any of the types of sensual or erotic sessions that I provide. Licensed Massage Therapists have very specific restrictions set by each state and would jeopardize the therapist’s personal license as well as the business operator’s license. I do not offer or provide any type of therapeutic massage therapy that would require a license.

Can you help me find a person closer to my location or a female to provide the session?

No. I do not offer any type of referral services. I do not know of anyone who does what I do and I will not venture to offer any recommendations. There are other people who have copied my website content and I have no relationship with them.

What are the best days and times to schedule a session?

Each session is 90 minutes. In call: best daytime hours at my location start between 10 am to 3pm any day of the week. Nighttime sessions are rare unless it is an outcall session. Outcall: I can travel to your location just about any day or night, and also any day of the week.

What if I am a shy person?

I understand. You will be completely covered at all times. When you arrive, you will change into a spa robe. Once on the table I will cover you in warm towels and only pull the towels back to work on each area. Usually once we have had our first session those feelings will fade away as you will feel more relaxed and comfortable. Please let me know in advance if you feel you are shy about nakedness.

How will you know my preferences when it comes to being touched?

Before the session is entered into the calendar you will have had an opportunity to complete a consultation to share as much information as you are comfortable with. This is a very detailed and totally optional questionnaire. You can fill in as little or as much detail as you’d like. You can fill out the Consultation Form here.

How do I prepare for a session at Inspired Touch location?

When you travel to my location most of all the prep work has been done for you and all you need to do is come and relax. However, there are a few things you can do in advance and the entire visit process is described here: See the article here.

How do I prepare for a session at my location?

When I travel to your home, hotel or location there are a few things you can do in advance to make the visit more comfortable: See the entire list here.

How do I know I will be in a safe environment?

As you can see by this professional website this is not just some posting on Craigslist for a random meet. By the time we meet in-person you will have my phone number and full information about me. You will also have my address (if you are doing a session at my home). I will have answered any questions you may have, and we will have had a verification call and a consultation.

How can this be free?

When I lived in New York I charged $300 to $500 for a 60 to 90 minute session. Since relocating to Florida I no longer charge any fee and I don’t do as many appointments per week. This is not a full-time job. This is not a spa, there is no waiting room and you do not get a choice of therapists. It is just me, James.

Unfortunately, the State of Florida is very backwards when it comes to allowing women to decide what is best for their own body. Because of this it is possible in some extreme case that they might determine me to be offering “orgasms” for money. So, I do not charge any fee for any sessions. If you’d like to provide me with a tip for my time and experience that would be fine. However, the tip is totally optional.

Why don’t you charge a fee for your sessions?

Current laws are in place in Florida where it is illegal to provide or offer to provide this type of service for a fee. I charge no fee, no money will change hands and (although appreciated) no tip is required. In some states like New York and California where Yoni massage is common and allowed, a 90 minute session would usually be between $300 and $500 (plus tip).

What if I have never had an orgasm?

I have worked with many women who have never experienced orgasm. Every woman is different and the thing that makes her orgasm happen can be elusive. Sometimes a small change can make a big difference and we can try many different things. I like to be the one who gets her to the first. It is a challenge, and I am willing to work at it. This can sometimes take more than one session, but I have had a very good success rate at first visit results. In most of these situations we can meet on a somewhat regular basis until it happens most all the time and becomes a natural occurrence.

What is Yoni massage?

Yoni is a type of Tantric massage that primarily focuses on the vulva and vagina. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for vagina and means “sacred space.” See detailed article here.

What is Tantric or Tantra massage?

See the article – The Difference Tantra & Tantric. Basically, there is no difference, and the two terms are used interchangeably in the US.

What is female ejaculation?

The process wherein the woman’s body expels fluid during orgasm. It is said that about 60% of women can physically do this but only about 30% have experienced it. More information is located here. And also in this article about the female glands that produce fluids in your amazing vagina.

What is a female condom?

Most often called a Dental Dam as it is similar to a thin protective wrap that is used by dentists. This can be used as protection during oral sex. The wrap is placed across the vagina, and it acts as a layer of protection. You can find more information here.

What kind of toys are used – can I bring my own?

Most often if I know what kind of toy you like to use when you are alone, I will know what makes you orgasm in the areas you know best. I enjoy finding areas that you have not discovered as yet too, but usually it is after we get to common ground. You can find more toy information here.

Where can I find more images and videos?

You can find more images and examples of sessions here. Of course, these are not images or videos of any of my sessions – these are just examples.

What is the difference between masseuse and masseur?

A masseuse is a woman who provides massage and a masseur is a man.

What is FL law for massage therapist providing this type of session?

The Florida 480.033 Definitions. “Massage Practice Act” defines as follows: (4)“Massage therapist” means a person licensed as required by this act, who administers massage for compensation.

A Licensed Massage Therapist (LMT) will not provide this type of massage as they risk losing their state license or business. I am not a LMT and do NOT charge for my sessions. I did not apply for the license or agree to the arcane rules. I do not provide the type of therapeutic massage (Swedish, Thai, etc.) that would require a license.

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