Here is a list of suggestions that may help to make things better in preparation for your session when you come to my home:
Until the massage try not to do anything stressful. Drink plenty of water and do not eat an hour or so beforehand.
Have a hot shower or bath just before the session if you can. You can take one here if you’d like. I also have a salt (low chlorine) hot tub if you would prefer to have a soak before or after the session. In summer I have it set to 98 degrees so 10 minutes in tub is usually perfect.
Come as you are
Try not to wear perfume and jewelry. Sometimes oil may get onto your face during the session. Best bet is to arrive without make-up. If you are wearing make-up and need to keep it intact please let me know. I will do my best to avoid your face if that is the case.
I have two cats so hopefully you are not allergic. If you are mildly allergic – the cats are nowhere near the massage table, towels or robe. If you are highly allergic you may want to reconsider and have the session at your place.
The Massage Session
When you arrive you will see the massage table set up – the blinds will be drawn and the room will be somewhat dark. I will show you the way into the bathroom where you can remove your clothes. It is always a good idea to pee before the session. That way no interruption for a nature call. There will be a comfy spa robe for you to wear. Best bet is to be completely nude for the massage.
I have a Massage MAT (as seen below) and will have it set up on table. This will allow for the most relaxation and comfort during your massage for the face down position. This hollowed out contour is especially comfortable for women’s breasts.
Once you return – I will have placed hot towels onto the table. We will begin with you face down and I will cover you with more hot towels so you are completely wrapped and toasty warm. I will peel the towels back one area at a time to rub each area.
Please let me know if you have any time constraints. I almost always plan for a 90 minute session. The session can work just as well in a 60 minute timeframe but I need to know in advance. This way i can plan the session routine to conform to your schedule.
Sometimes during the tantric part of the session you may feel the urge to pee. Knowing that the bladder is empty (since you went to the bathroom beforehand) you will not worry about that sensation. In fact, many women expel liquid (ejaculate) during orgasm. So if you feel like you have to pee during the session I encourage you to just let it flow. In fact you should even push a bit to help it along. Don’t worry or be embarrassed by it as it is completely normal and natural. I have seen this many times and I encourage it. Women describe this type of orgasm as “something they never felt before.”
After the Session
Now you are feeling wonderful in every way. You can just relax, stay on the table and glow. I will bring you the spa robe. You can keep the coconut oil on your skin as a moisturizer, or I can wipe you down with some wet hot towels. If there is time – you can do a soak in the hot tub.