The principal behind Tantric massage is one of surrender. Both the giver and the recipient must surrender into the process. It helps in relieving blockages of different kinds be it mental, physical, emotional or spiritual.
Within us we are habituated in carrying so many traumas and pre conceived notions around our genitals and our sexuality, that it often brings us negativity. So the main purpose of tantra massage is to heal that trauma around our sexuality and make harmony within the whole body so that we can live life in its full potential of Sex and Super consciousness together.
The goal of Tantric massage is to enter into a separate state of consciousness where both the participants feel more energized and blissful.
What are the benefits?
One gets better health, vigor and vitality
It is effective as a treatment of sexual dysfunction in men as well as women
It serves to open blocked emotions and clean our emotional pathways
One receives contentment and joy
It may lead to the spark of spiritual awakening
The mind becomes clearer and stress is greatly reduced
Makes one relax to the heart’s content
Steps of tantric massage
Communication – Take some time to discuss with each other your fears, boundaries and anxieties. Make sure that your partner understands what you need to resolve before you being the massage. Once the massage begins and the recipient is placed in an altered state of consciousness there cannot be any changes about the end goals of the massage.
Time – it is important to set a limit for duration of the massage. This helps to determine how far the recipient will travel on their journey to find themselves.
Giving vs Receiving – Decide whether you wish to give or receive. It may also be both.
Preparing the space –Create a suitable ambience with soft lights, aroma, soft light and a temperature that is suitable to wearing minimal amount of clothing.
Role of the receiver
The receiver must breathe slowly and deeply with their abdomen. Exhale with the mouth as this would awaken your consciousness and make your experience many times more enjoyable.
If a particular touch does not seem soothing, breathe in and relax and try and find if it can be made more pleasant by dropping all obstructions. But if it is not happening do not hesitate to let your partner know.
Be flexible and do not become stiff. Make sounds if needed since this is a way of letting your partner know if you are feeling better.
Role of the giver
Use your heart and feel the connection with the receiver. Breathe in love from the receiver through your left hand and channel it through your heart. Next breathe it out through your right hand and into the receiver. This sets up a loop of energy that travels back and forth.
Imagine in your mind that the body is new to you and massaging is like exploring an unknown country. Instead of seeing limbs and torso and skin and bones see curves and shadows, light playing between shapes. Let your touch be a nurturing one. Let it be full of compassion and love. Make sure to touch every chakra.
Tantric or Tantra massage is very relaxing by nature. Every part of the session will take you deeper into a state of relaxation, making it one of the best therapies to use when dealing with stress.
Tantric massage can be very exciting, but you will still feel utterly comfortable throughout the session. The sense of security allows your body and mind to fully relax and regenerate energy quickly. As a result, you can feel your stress – and the issues causing the stress in the first place – slip away.
Improve Sexual Drive and Energy
Tantric massage is also very sensual due to the sensual nature of Tantra itself. Among the many benefits you can enjoy from a session of Tantric massage is improved sexual drive and energy. As each stimulation is delivered across your body, you will feel your inner sexual energy developing exponentially.
Although Tantric massage is a very sensual therapy, orgasm is not necessarily the primary goal. However, the rituals incorporated into the Tantric massage session allows you to improve the quality of your orgasm.
Regular sessions of Tantric massage also help you gain better control over your orgasm, both from a personal and spiritual point of view. As a result, your sexual life will be greatly improved.
Some who have never experienced orgasm have been able to achieve it and others have been able to go beyond into multiple orgasm and even female ejaculation.
Relax knowing that you will not have to end your peaceful state in order to satisfy your partner’s needs. Just enjoy a great orgasm to relieve stress and frustrations and relax in the afterglow.
The key to living life to the fullest is total harmony. You need to be in sync with yourself, those around you, and your environment in general so that you can be as empathic as possible.
And stress can really shut down libido. Maybe it’s your libido, maybe it’s your partners; or perhaps both.
Further, pandemic stress isn’t any old type of stress. For many people, it’s financial stress, which is a type of survival stress and it can have a negative effect on your body’s ability or interest in touching. Survival stress sends the body into a state of fight or flight, so the only thing that matters is survival, not procreating; We become hormonally less interested in sex.
If you and your partner aren’t having sex but want to boost intimacy Sensual Touch can help. Intimacy has many forms.
Sex is one kind of physical intimacy. It isn’t the only kind.
Incorporating skin-on-skin contact can help regulate your nervous systems and make you feel safer and calmer. Even if it’s not sexual touch. These types of touches can include: oil massage, foot massage, back scratching, head rubs, cuddling, hand holding, kissing and hugging.
If you’d like one or more of these intimacies included in your Inspired Touch Session just mention it in the contact form. I will do my best to include the ones you feel are missing in your life.
How are people coping with skin hunger or touch deprivation?
Studies show physical contact with other people reduces feelings of stress. Evolutionary psychologists say it can all be traced back to our monkey ancestry. Grooming each other’s fur is how apes build friendships. Humans have substituted that grooming with stroking and cuddling, he says and that act of physical touch has a profound effect on our health.
“Not only does it build friendships directly and indirectly, but those friendships have a dramatic effect on your well-being, your general health, your ability to recover from illnesses and even your longevity.”
So many rules about preventing the spread of the corona-virus warn against touching other people. Just as a stomach needs a proper amount of food to thrive, a human’s largest sensory organ has a need for physical contact.
What kind of effect does this lack of human touch have on people?
We’re facing a crisis of skin hunger, and it has real consequences.
Maybe you wish your spouse or partner were a bit more demonstrative of his or her love. Maybe you’ve tried without success to get certain people in your life to be more affectionate with you, so you go on wishing for more affection than you receive. If any of this sounds familiar, then you’re experiencing a common problem known as skin hunger, and you’re far from alone. Consider:
Three out of every four adults agree with the statement, “Americans suffer from skin hunger.”
More Americans live alone than ever before.
One in four Americans reports not having a single person to talk to about important issues.
Loneliness among American adults has increased by 16 percent in the last decade.
Yoni massage or yonic massage is a type of Tantric massage that primarily focuses on the vulva and vagina, in the same way that Lingam massage focuses on the male genitalia. The massage is sometimes introduced as a method of relieving tension of the vagina.
Yoni massage allows you time to slowly explore your body in a more sensual way. It can also help women who have never had an orgasm and those who would like to achieve multiple orgasms. It can be very healing for those who have suffered sexual trauma in their past, because the approach and technique is all about giving to the woman—making her feel loved, cherished, worshiped, and honored.
I am especially inspired by the concept of sacred sexuality. It’s an ancient idea that is lost on many Westerners. I especially love the idea of approaching a woman’s body—particularly her vagina—with a sense of worship.
The vagina is called yoni in Sanskrit and loosely translates to “a sacred space.” In Tantra philosophy, we approach the vagina from a place of the utmost love and respect. Yoni massage is a practice intended to truly honor a woman, to give her selfless pleasure, and to explore the sacred side of her sexuality.
If you bypass the sensual massage and just go direct to the yoni massage that is sometimes called Orgasmic Meditation.
Basically the two words are the same and being used interchangeably in western vocabulary.
Tantra is one of the modern sexual buzzwords that is being used today to describe a more open approach to growth, enlightenment, life and living.
It’s the topic of many books, some are very simple and others show complex positions and breathing techniques, in fact almost every book written about sex today has a chapter on Tantra or refers to Tantra in some way. However, there is not much clarity on what Tantra or Tantric sex is all about.
What is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is a type of massage that uses sexual energy to achieve a higher state of consciousness. Skilled tantra specialists and those who study the art, use specific sensual touches such as lightly running fingertips along the entire body to awaken a dormant energy field within the body. When awakened, this energy field is believed to allow trapped physical and mental pain to escape from the body. Once awakened it can allow a highly aroused state to occur and possibly help one achieve a better more intense orgasm.
There are many books and articles online that will offer more definitions and as many different views. But why not experience it for yourself? Let Inspired Touch provide a free sensual session to take you to a relaxed comfortable state of mind and allow yourself to experience something completely different .
The client or the receiver of a tantra massage is not a giver. Their duty is to receive the massage and surrender to the rediscovery of senses feelings and emotions. The process combines the feeling of well-being associated with deep relaxation therapeutic as people come to resolve issues related to relationship issues, self esteem issues including sexual issues. More here.
Types of Tantric Massage
Some providers begin by undressing the receiver and then continue into the sensual massage. Others begin with the receiver on the message table undressed. Others offer what they term a girlfriend experience which includes everything a boyfriend might do to provide pleasure during a massage but the woman does not have to interrupt the pleasure with concerns about pleasing her partner.
Focus on mindful meditation while being brought to Orgasm
For women who are not familiar, OM (orgasic meditation) is a sequenced practice in which one person gently strokes the other’s clitoris. The “stroking” allegedly activates the limbic system and releases a flood of oxytocin. Some say the result is said to be therapeutic, rather than sexual – but I say, if you are there why not go the distance.
While most of the trendy services offering OM charge hefty fees to experience and learn the Art of OM – my sessions are free of charge and no tip is required.
While genital release has a relaxing and therapeutic benefit, it is both inappropriate and illegal for this to occur in a paid capacity. That said, I provide my sessions at no cost whatsoever I have had some very good experience with first orgasm and intensifying orgasms. Also a lot of experience with female ejaculation orgasm.
Massaging the Lower Back and Spine during Sensual Erotic Session
Spinal stimulation to awaken latent energies for sexual awakening and spiritual transformation.
What is Kundalini ?
Your Kundalini is your sexual and spiritual energy that lies usually dormant at the base of your spine. Once activated and coaxed upward it supports the unblocking of your chakras and the awakening of latent abilities in your body, mind and spirit.
I usually start with a light rocking motion while you are on your stomach during the first part of the session. Later in the session slowly progressing from gentle to more firm massaging of the lower back and buttocks. As the energy moves up through your chakras from lower spine to the top of your head you may go through an intense spiritual or transcendent experience. You may feel sensations of intense heat or energy flowing through your body. You may not feel anything but simple relaxed pleasure.
Spontaneous movements can occur. Some consider it a cathartic experience or something that gives them deep insights or realizations. But these are just some of the side effects that can happen.
A profound rewiring of the brain structure and central nervous system happens with continued experience. Relax in the safe stress-free environment that I have provided and know that you are safe to experience and allow these effects and sensations to occur.
A few of my clients report afterwards of a profound life changing event. Some have removed themselves from loveless partners, unhealthy home environments and moved on into a better life. Of course some just experience great relaxation and continue with their life unchanged.
“Every woman should experience this type of touch/journey at least once in her life. From the moment we met, James made me feel comfortable. With skill and patience, he peels away every layer of inhibitions you may have. He senses your timing and even gives you room to breathe between happy moments. I will use just one word to describe his session: bliss. Stop thinking about it, and give yourself a nice gift! He will take care of the rest.”