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Experience Full Body Orgasmic Bliss

Experience Orgasmic Bliss Full Body

Almost every woman can have an orgasm. All you need is the right technique and the ability to remove the mental obstacles that get in your way and prevent you from climaxing. Even if you can orgasm you may be able to enhance your climaxing by finding new ways to come. Ways you may not know even exist; including, but not limited to, multiple, squirt and back wall.

Mental Obstacles That Can Get in Your Way

Stress

To relieve stress we start with a relaxing sensual massage with a lot of skin to skin contact. Soft music and a clean safe location help to make the massage more like foreplay.

Trying to “force” the orgasm

If you are in a hurry or thinking about other things you may end up trying too hard to have an orgasm. Putting pressure on yourself to orgasm is obviously going to work against you and make it harder to cum. This relaxing massage will take your thoughts away and allow you to relax and be in the moment.

Being distressed about not being able to orgasm

It can be a vicious cycle. Those who find it hard to come may end up being distressed about it and that may keep them from achieving orgasm easily. You deserve them and lots of them. With the relaxing massage start you can just relax into the entire process and allow the feelings to come more naturally.

Performance Anxiety

You don’t have to perform at all – you just relax and allow it all to happen. There is no partner to have to please and no one expecting anything in return. This is all about you and allowing you to let go.

Negative past experiences

Having past negative experiences like an abusive boyfriend who only cared about his own pleasure can make it difficult for you to focus on your own sexual gratification in new situations. This will be like something you have never experienced before – so you can let all the past go. Many women who have had trauma or abuse in connection with their sexual past find this type of session a way to let go and reconnect to themselves. They find out that it is possible to be gently taking through foreplay, into the erotic zones and even find “trust” again.

Anxiety about whether you have a normal vagina

Every woman is different – I know I have worked with thousands. You are uniquely you. You don’t have to worry over being different or normal. There is no normal for all women – there is only normal you and that is already you.

Having a vaginal orgasm will become far easier if you can get yourself into a relaxed state of mind, unencumbered by stress or worry or performance anxiety.

Clitoral orgasms tend to be more common during intercourse, and less than half of women have regular vaginal orgasms during intercourse. Of the women who report having vaginal orgasms, many find them to be much more intense and satisfying than clitoral orgasms.

Slow or Fast

Another myth that perpetuates is that faster is always better. You probably already know how untrue this is. A more accurate description is that the right rhythm for you is the best right rhythm. Finding a fast, slow or medium paced rhythm is a critical part of having vaginal orgasms.

You’ll also find that a steady rhythm is much more preferable than stopping and starting or going from fast to slow or vice-versa.

Final words

The final thing to say on achieving orgasms with James is that you need to talk to him. As cheesy as it may sound, communication is key. When you can share tips with him on what you enjoy and, what is pleasing you in the moment, you will quickly get in sync and find having multiple orgasms to be easier and easier.

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History of the Yoni Massage

Hysteria in Women

In the 1800s when women were considered “frustrated” they visited a specialist doctor to have their “hysteria” treated by a professional. Basically, the doctor performed masturbation by way of vagina and yoni massage.

Doctors would treat female “hysterics” by massaging them until they reached orgasm. The notion that women suffered from hysteria, a poorly defined disorder with a laundry list of symptoms, led to the creation of the modern-day vibrator.

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Vaginal and Clitoral Orgasms

You and Your Orgasms

Hopefully, you already know this, but in case you don’t, clitoral orgasms come from clitoral stimulation on the outside of the vagina, while vaginal orgasms come from internal stimulation from your man’s penis, fingers, a dildo, etc. Many people believe that the G-spot inside your vagina is a separate entity, but recent findings have found that your clitoris is not just the little button on the outside. In fact, it is much larger; most of it is completely under your skin and inside you and, like an iceberg, just the top part is showing. G-spot climax most always comes from stimulation of the rest of your clitoris that rests beneath the surface.

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The Kama Sutra or Kamasutra

What Is Kama Sutra – Kamasutra?

The term Kama Sutra comes from an ancient Hindu textbook written in Sanskrit about erotic love called The Kamasutra. Very little is known about its author, Vatsyayana Mallanga, other than his name. It was written probably sometime in the third century.

Contrary to popular belief, The Kamasutra is not only a book about lovemaking and different sex positions. It covers other topics such as the art of living well, the nature of love, finding a life partner, and taking care of your love life. The sexual concepts that most people associate with the Kama Sutra became known in Western culture at the end of the 19th century, with the adaptation of the Kamasutra manual by a British explorer named Richard Francis Burton.

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The Healing Power of Hugs

What is the Healing Power of Hugs

In the last few years we have seen a decline in hugging, a result of the social distancing that accompanied COVID-19. Not having the physical touch of hugs or other comforting gestures can negatively impact our health.

The simple gesture of compassion – a hug is actually a prescription for better brain health and wellness.

Hugging is an intimate gesture that brings two people together. The person receiving the hug gets a silent message from the hugger, “You matter to me, you are not alone, I’m here.” The emotional impact of this small act is amazing.

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Coconut Oil Safe for Your Vagina

Is Coconut Oil Safe for Your Vagina?

Other than perhaps CBD oil, no other substance has received more headlines claiming super-healing powers than coconut oil. Dermatologists swear by its moisturizing powers, and health gurus proclaim its superiority to other oils in the kitchen. We know it’s excellent on your dry elbows and your sweet potatoes, but is it also good for your vagina?

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Your Amazing Vagina

Vaginas Make Their Own Lube.

When turned on, the vagina naturally releases lubricants from multiple places to make sex more comfortable and safer.

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There are two sets of glands that both expel fluids.

The Bartholin’s glands (named after the Danish anatomist who researched them) will excrete a lube like fluid that will help to make things slippery and very comfortable during sex. When foreplay gets you “tuned on” these will help to make things slick and wet. I can often tell during my “tantric foreplay” when things are ready for advanced simulation by the fluid that is visible on the outside of the vagina. Some women have more fluid than others but pretty much once it is present the vagina is prepped and ready for some attention. The glands are located just below the vagina opening.

The Skene’s glands on the other hand are located just inside and below the urethra (where you pee) and they can discharge a fluid (known as squirt or female ejaculation) which can be very slight or like a water fountain. Different amounts from different women. Most women who expel the fluids from this area report having the most intense orgasms during the event. Normally these occur during G-spot orgasm, but I have seen many women release from a purely stimulated clitoral orgasm.

I have heard that about 33 percent of women produce the fluid (ejaculate) nearly every time they orgasm, and another 33 percent have never experienced it but can and the last 33 percent never have it happen in their lifetime. I don’t agree – I think that all women can experience this, it just takes the right stimulation and the willingness to allow it to occur. What I mean by that is many women have had the sensation that they were about to pee during sex or stimulation, so they held back or stopped themselves from letting go. Feeling they would be embarrassed if that happened during sex. Some have probably stopped themselves so many times that they have trained themselves to not allow it to occur. It is completely natural, and every woman should experience this at some point.

I always advise my visitors to pee before the session – if they feel like they are about to pee during stimulation – they know that they just did, so it is not that. I encourage them to push and allow it to happen. I have had tremendous success with this approach and have experienced everything from a small trickle to a full-on “water fountain” stream.

The theory is that this discharge of fluids has antimicrobial properties which can protect against urinary tract infections. Basically, wash away bacteria. In India the word for this fluid is Amrita – meaning nectar of the gods.

Some women get a blockage of one of the glands which can develop into a Bartholin cyst. A bump the size of a pee or as large as walnut just under the skin of the labia. When I do my tantric massage, I always try to include the labia lips to gently stroke that area where the Bartholin glands are located under the skin. It is not known if this massaging actively has any clear health benefit but I know that it feels good from the reaction I get while stimulating the area. I assume light rubbing there would help the flow and therein possibly avoid blockage.

Fo some women who do not produce a lot of lubricant, sex and penetration can be annoying or even painful. Some of these women tend to think they can only have clitoral orgasms as they tend to avoid allowing penetration due to dryness. For these women I tend to apply a generous amount of organic coconut oil to anything that will go inside. I have had very good success rate once we remedy the dryness. Many women tell me they never knew their bodies could do the things that happen after that.

I have met a lot of women who do not like to have anything inside them. They tend to only have clitoral experiences and are missing out on another 80% of amazing vagina wonders.

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Cannabis for Better Sex for Women

Better Sex for Women with Cannabis

The research is thin, but anecdotal experience suggests that the right dose and delivery method can make a positive difference for some people.

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To learn more about cannabis and sex we turned to several experts, including a gynecologist who has surveyed women about their marijuana use.

The bottom line: It’s hard to say with certainty that cannabis will increase desire or improve your sex life, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the right dose of cannabis can make a woman’s orgasms more satisfying and increase sex drive. This is in part because cannabis can enhance the senses and also alleviate some of the symptoms that inhibit desire, like anxiety, sleeplessness or pain.

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What Is Your Lifestyle

What Best Describes Your Life Style?

Lifestyle is a word used to describe people’s day to day activities. But what are these lifestyles really?

As a broad definition we can break the word down into several categories.

  • Adventuristic Lifestyle
  • Hedonistic Lifestyle
  • Individualistic Lifestyle
  • Promethean Lifestyle

ADVENTURISTIC LIFESTYLE

This tends to be characterised by new experiences. You tend to be constantly on the hunt for something new, whether doing or seeing new things. An adventuristic lifestyle is a continuous chain of surprises and learning experiences, you are ever pushing to experience and learn something about yourself and the world.

HEDONISTIC LIFESTYLE

This is more on the pleasurable side of life, you are all about the pleasures, let it be simple or big that is the drive of this lifestyle. Mainly characterized by hedonism (the pursuit of pleasure, self-indulgence), the ethical theory that pleasure (in the sense of the satisfaction of desires) is the highest good and proper aim of human life.

INDIVIDUALISTIC LIFESTYLE

As the name suggests this lifestyle is driven by one’s individuality, favouring the individual needs over those of groups.

PROMETHEAN LIFESTYLE

Taken from Prometheus, a Titan from Greek Mythology. The Lifestyle denotes one who is boldly creative or defiantly original in behavior or actions. Those that dawn this lifestyle, live to be extraordinary as they choose not to pursue the life the same way others do.

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Half the World Has a Clitoris – I Study It

Half the World Has a Clitoris. Why Don’t Doctors Study It?

The organ is “completely ignored by pretty much everyone,” medical experts say, and that omission can be devastating to women’s sexual health.

This New York Times Article is worth checking out.

By Rachel E. Gross

If there was one thing Gillian knew, it was that she did not want a hole punch anywhere near her genitals.

So when, in 2018, a gynecologist recommended a vulval biopsy to check for signs of cancer, she hesitated. The doctor suspected that the whitish speck of skin that Gillian had found next to her clitoris was lichen sclerosus, a skin condition that is usually benign. To Gillian, a registered nurse, taking a chunk out of her most sensitive body part sounded a bit extreme.

But in the end she consented. He was a doctor; she was a nurse. She assumed he was the authority on this part of the body. “I never worked in OB-GYN before,” said Gillian, who asked to be identified by her first name to protect her privacy. “I was pretty clueless.”

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