Anorgasmia in Women

Pre-Orgasmia in Women

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Anorgasmia is delayed, infrequent or absent orgasms — or significantly less-intense orgasms — after sexual arousal and adequate sexual stimulation. Women who have problems with orgasms and who feel significant distress about those problems may be diagnosed with anorgasmia.

I’d rather call it Pre-Orgasmia as I believe all women can orgasm in time, so it is really the state before the first orgasm. Basically, to awaken the orgasm.

Among all women, the frequency and intensity of orgasms vary. Also, for any individual, orgasms can be different from one time to the next. The type and amount of stimulation needed to have an orgasm also varies.

Multiple factors may lead to pre-orgasmia. These include relationship or intimacy issues, cultural factors, physical or medical conditions, and medications. Treatments can include education about sexual stimulation, sexual enhancement devices, individual or couple therapy, and medications.

Female orgasmic disorder is another term for the spectrum of problems with orgasms. The word “anorgasmia” specifically refers to not being able to have an orgasm, but it’s also used as shorthand for female orgasmic disorders. The term “pre-orgasmia” refers to the period prior to the first Orgasm.

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Benefits of Tantric or Tantra Massage

Benefits of Tantric Massage

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Stress & Relaxation

Tantric or Tantra massage is very relaxing by nature. Every part of the session will take you deeper into a state of relaxation, making it one of the best therapies to use when dealing with stress. 

Tantric massage can be very exciting, but you will still feel utterly comfortable throughout the session. The sense of security allows your body and mind to fully relax and regenerate energy quickly. As a result, you can feel your stress – and the issues causing the stress in the first place – slip away.

Improve Sexual Drive and Energy

Tantric massage is also very sensual due to the sensual nature of Tantra itself. Among the many benefits you can enjoy from a session of Tantric massage is improved sexual drive and energy. As each stimulation is delivered across your body, you will feel your inner sexual energy developing exponentially.

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The Kama Sutra or Kamasutra

What Is Kama Sutra – Kamasutra?

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The term Kama Sutra comes from an ancient Hindu textbook written in Sanskrit about erotic love called The Kamasutra. Very little is known about its author, Vatsyayana Mallanga, other than his name. It was written probably sometime in the third century.

Contrary to popular belief, The Kamasutra is not only a book about lovemaking and different sex positions. It covers other topics such as the art of living well, the nature of love, finding a life partner, and taking care of your love life. The sexual concepts that most people associate with the Kama Sutra became known in Western culture at the end of the 19th century, with the adaptation of the Kamasutra manual by a British explorer named Richard Francis Burton.

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The Healing Power of Hugs

What is the Healing Power of Hugs

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In the last few years we have seen a decline in hugging, a result of the social distancing that accompanied COVID-19. Not having the physical touch of hugs or other comforting gestures can negatively impact our health.

The simple gesture of compassion – a hug is actually a prescription for better brain health and wellness.

Hugging is an intimate gesture that brings two people together. The person receiving the hug gets a silent message from the hugger, “You matter to me, you are not alone, I’m here.” The emotional impact of this small act is amazing.

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Your Amazing Vagina

Vaginas Make Their Own Lube.

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When turned on, the vagina naturally releases lubricants from multiple places to make sex more comfortable and safer.

Female Ejaculation or Amrita graphic

There are two sets of glands that both expel fluids.

The Bartholin’s glands (named after the Danish anatomist who researched them) will excrete a lube like fluid that will help to make things slippery and very comfortable during sex. When foreplay gets you “tuned on” these will help to make things slick and wet. I can often tell during my “tantric foreplay” when things are ready for advanced simulation by the fluid that is visible on the outside of the vagina. Some women have more fluid than others but pretty much once it is present the vagina is prepped and ready for some attention. The glands are located just below the vagina opening.

The Skene’s glands on the other hand are located just inside and below the urethra (where you pee) and they can discharge a fluid (known as squirt or female ejaculation) which can be very slight or like a water fountain. Different amounts from different women. Most women who expel the fluids from this area report having the most intense orgasms during the event. Normally these occur during G-spot orgasm, but I have seen many women release from a purely stimulated clitoral orgasm.

I have heard that about 33 percent of women produce the fluid (ejaculate) nearly every time they orgasm, and another 33 percent have never experienced it but can and the last 33 percent never have it happen in their lifetime. I don’t agree – I think that all women can experience this, it just takes the right stimulation and the willingness to allow it to occur. What I mean by that is many women have had the sensation that they were about to pee during sex or stimulation, so they held back or stopped themselves from letting go. Feeling they would be embarrassed if that happened during sex. Some have probably stopped themselves so many times that they have trained themselves to not allow it to occur. It is completely natural, and every woman should experience this at some point.

I always advise my visitors to pee before the session – if they feel like they are about to pee during stimulation – they know that they just did, so it is not that. I encourage them to push and allow it to happen. I have had tremendous success with this approach and have experienced everything from a small trickle to a full-on “water fountain” stream.

The theory is that this discharge of fluids has antimicrobial properties which can protect against urinary tract infections. Basically, wash away bacteria. In India the word for this fluid is Amrita – meaning nectar of the gods.

Some women get a blockage of one of the glands which can develop into a Bartholin cyst. A bump the size of a pee or as large as walnut just under the skin of the labia. When I do my tantric massage, I always try to include the labia lips to gently stroke that area where the Bartholin glands are located under the skin. It is not known if this massaging actively has any clear health benefit but I know that it feels good from the reaction I get while stimulating the area. I assume light rubbing there would help the flow and therein possibly avoid blockage.

Fo some women who do not produce a lot of lubricant, sex and penetration can be annoying or even painful. Some of these women tend to think they can only have clitoral orgasms as they tend to avoid allowing penetration due to dryness. For these women I tend to apply a generous amount of organic coconut oil to anything that will go inside. I have had very good success rate once we remedy the dryness. Many women tell me they never knew their bodies could do the things that happen after that.

I have met a lot of women who do not like to have anything inside them. They tend to only have clitoral experiences and are missing out on another 80% of amazing vagina wonders.

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Skin Hunger

Skin Hunger

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Human touch is essential.

How are people coping with skin hunger or touch deprivation?

Studies show physical contact with other people reduces feelings of stress. Evolutionary psychologists say it can all be traced back to our monkey ancestry. Grooming each other’s fur is how apes build friendships. Humans have substituted that grooming with stroking and cuddling, he says and that act of physical touch has a profound effect on our health.

Not only does it build friendships directly and indirectly, but those friendships have a dramatic effect on your well-being, your general health, your ability to recover from illnesses and even your longevity.” 

So many rules about preventing the spread of the corona-virus warn against touching other people. Just as a stomach needs a proper amount of food to thrive, a human’s largest sensory organ (your skin) has a need for physical contact.

Finger tips in a small bottle of oil

What kind of effect does this lack of human touch have on people?

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Sex Life After Childbirth by Inspired Touch

Sex Life After Child Birth

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It’s the dirty little secret of baby-making: After nine long months, you’re overwhelmed by the love you feel for your newborn — and shocked to find how much havoc that bundle of joy is wreaking in the bedroom. If you’re feeling less than lusty after having a baby, you’re not alone.

“It’s completely normal for both women and men’s libido to hit a rock-bottom low during the first six to nine months following the birth of your baby,”

You don’t need to throw your sex life out with the bathwater. Here are a few secrets to help you dust off your sexuality post-baby.

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The Benefits of Inspired Touch Massage

The Benefits of Massage

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  • Enhances health and nourishment of the skin.
  • Touch can help refocus & rejuvenate your mind, body & spirit.
  • Strengthens the immune system.
  • Oil and friction removes an external layer of dry, dead skin.
  • Reduces effects of stress.
  • Increases circulation.
  • Helps to remove toxins from skin and muscles.
  • Stimulates the nervous & endocrine systems that are responsible for relaxing the body & mind.
  • Reduces or relieves chronic pain.
  • Reduces fatigue and muscle tension.
  • Increases flexibility of soft tissue & joints.
  • Reduces blood pressure.
  • Creates greater joint flexibility.
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Orgasmic Meditation by Inspired Touch in WPB

Orgasmic Meditation for Women in West Palm Beach

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Focus on mindful meditation while being brought to Orgasm

For women who are not familiar, OM (orgasic meditation) is a sequenced practice in which one person gently strokes the other’s clitoris. The “stroking” allegedly activates the limbic system and releases a flood of oxytocin. Some say the result is said to be therapeutic, rather than sexual – but I say, if you are there why not go the distance.

Nude female body with sea shell in front of the vulva

While most of the trendy services offering OM charge hefty fees to experience and learn the Art of OM – my sessions are free of charge and no tip is required.

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Kundalini Awakening by Inspired Touch in West Palm Beach

Kundalini Awakening

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Massaging the Lower Back and Spine during Sensual Erotic Session

Spinal stimulation to awaken latent energies for sexual awakening and spiritual transformation.  

What is Kundalini ?

Your Kundalini is your sexual and spiritual energy that lies usually dormant at the base of your spine. Once activated and coaxed upward it supports the unblocking of your chakras and the awakening of latent abilities in your body, mind and spirit.

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