I often receive requests from men who want to surprise their spouse with a sensual or tantric massage. There’s a lot of emotion involved when it comes to inviting someone else to touch and caress your partner—understandably so, for everyone involved. That said, it’s rare for these fantasies to actually become reality.
Typically, I suggest starting with a session that includes only the woman. Having a stranger come in to give a sensual massage is already a lot to process, and having the partner present adds another layer of intensity. I’ve had a few cases where, after the first solo massage, we scheduled second and additional sessions with the man present—and those were much more relaxed than trying to include everyone from the start.
That said, men have varying ideas about how they’d like to be involved. Some simply watch; a few have come in close to observe my techniques. Others have asked for a massage for themselves afterward, and occasionally they were more interested in touching me during the session. My only request is that you’re upfront about your intentions so we’re all clear on the direction things are headed.
Have your female partner fill out the contact form and mention the situation of a possible male involvement. This way she knows exactly what the sessions are all about on her own.
As I mention on my pages, I require verbal verification from the woman herself—either over the phone or via a voicemail message. This is an important step, as over the years, I’ve had many men pretend to have an interested partner in order to get more information or photos of me. I’m not entirely sure why that happens, but I don’t share any further details until female verification is completed upfront.
I do not send out photos of myself. My work focuses on sensual and tantric massage, and requests to see the masseur’s physical appearance beforehand are typically associated with more sexually oriented or swinger-type scenarios. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’m afraid you may have taken a wrong turn—this isn’t that kind of service.
I appreciate your understanding, and I look forward to connecting with genuine interest.